It's been some times since I wrote my last blogpost. Well I'm a bit busy with some kind of things. Yeah this year, once more, I'm trying to get to medschool (oh, Jah hear my prayer!). So I got to do the tests. Moreover, I also got a lot of works to do and also laboratory research and report to be done (feeling scientist mode : on).
Well it has been a great relieve after two weeks of war, ended with good meeting and party with my family. Yep. My" big dreadlocked big fat drummer brother" Mas Jantan Gerhana Surya got married last Saturday. Mas Jantan now officially married Kaka Grace. I'm happy for the both of you.
Okay, the party was rocking cool. But wait. Yes it is a wedding party, and I'm 19 now, which means it's not a long time to get married. Marriage. What?
From what I've seen, most people are getting married around the age of 24-30 years old. Yep. And I am 19 now. It means that around 5-10 years from now on, I will be getting married. And the situation is : I am not dating anyone right now. *hiks* *tear* Even that goes on, let this 19 years old boy blogs about love, relationship, dating, and marriage.
Love. What is love? L is for the way you look at me... *sing*
Wait. No, I got sore-throat, I ain't able to sing right now.
Love. I can't really describe what love is. The definition according to Oxford Dictionary - Online the word "love" described as:
- a strong feeling of affection
- A great interest and pleasure in something
But from what I know, we can't really describe love, but we can feel it. Sometimes, we often mix love with lust. And even we even mixed up love with our ego. But real love is an interpretation The Divine Love of God Almighty.
Dating and relationship. Asian and Western culture have a very different thing about this step. Western culture said that you date him or her when both of you thinks that the both of you are coo enough, and just date. But Asian [yeah me, I'm Asian, even I'm black] thinks that you have to propose a girl to be your girlfriend or date. Both of them got their own plus and minus.
I've ever date a girl, but yeah, things didn't work out, and bla bla bla [you know what to feel and fill about it]
Dating and relationship is a learning, knowing, orientating, and journey to get you ready to a marriage. Well so it's better to work things seriously in a relationship. Don't play it like an Atari or even PS3. Relationships sometimes failed. Yes, it is normal. It is orientating and learning. We learn something when we fall right? Don't do fool things in relationship(s). It is not eternal things.
Marriage. I leran from daddy and mommy, unks and aunts, grannies about this. Marriage is a ship. Both of you are the crew of the ship. Let Jah be the captain. Don't ever plays with your marriage. When you are married both of you aren't two anymore, but one.
Marry the right one. When you choose, pray and fast. Ask, if she/he is the one or not. When you've find, get married. You don't have to wait to have your own house, car, etc. You fight for it together. :)
But in all of them, you have to know that The Scripture says something about LDRM.
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" - Matthew 6:33
all these things means also about love, dating, and marriage. In every step, search the Kingdom and Righteousness of God before every thing, so The Divine Lord will bless your love with his Divine Mercy and Divine Love.
Shine this world with love!