Monday, June 23, 2014

Love, Relationship, Dating, Marriage.

Hey ho blog-world!
It's been some times since I wrote my last blogpost. Well I'm a bit busy with some kind of things. Yeah this year, once more, I'm trying to get to medschool (oh, Jah hear my prayer!). So I got to do the tests. Moreover, I also got a lot of works to do and also laboratory research and report to be done (feeling scientist mode : on).

Well it has been a great relieve after two weeks of war, ended with good meeting and party with my family. Yep. My" big dreadlocked big fat drummer brother" Mas Jantan Gerhana Surya got married last Saturday. Mas Jantan now officially married Kaka Grace. I'm happy for the both of you.

Okay, the party was rocking cool. But wait. Yes it is a wedding party, and I'm 19 now, which means it's not a long time to get married. Marriage. What?

From what I've seen, most people are getting married around the age of 24-30 years old. Yep. And I am 19 now. It means that around 5-10 years from now on, I will be getting married. And the situation is : I am not dating anyone right now. *hiks* *tear* Even that goes on, let this 19 years old boy blogs about love, relationship, dating, and marriage.

Love. What is love? L is for the way you look at me... *sing*
Wait. No, I got sore-throat, I ain't able to sing right now.

Love. I can't really describe what love is. The definition according to Oxford Dictionary - Online the word "love" described as:
  1. a strong feeling of affection
  2. A great interest and pleasure in something
  3. [COUNT NOUN] A person or thing that one loves
  4. (In tennis, squash, and some other sports) a score of zero; nil
But from what I know, we can't really describe love, but we can feel it. Sometimes, we often mix love with lust. And even we even mixed up love with our ego. But real love is an interpretation The Divine Love of God Almighty.

Dating and relationship. Asian and Western culture have a very different thing about this step. Western culture said that you date him or her when both of you thinks that the both of you are coo enough, and just date. But Asian [yeah me, I'm Asian, even I'm black] thinks that you have to propose a girl to be your girlfriend or date. Both of them got their own plus and minus.

I've ever date a girl, but yeah, things didn't work out, and bla bla bla [you know what to feel and fill about it]

Dating and relationship is a learning, knowing, orientating, and journey to get you ready to a marriage. Well so it's better to work things seriously in a relationship. Don't play it like an Atari or even PS3. Relationships sometimes failed. Yes, it is normal. It is orientating and learning. We learn something when we fall right? Don't do fool things in relationship(s). It is not eternal things.

Marriage. I leran from daddy and mommy, unks and aunts, grannies about this. Marriage is a ship. Both of you are the crew of the ship. Let Jah be the captain. Don't ever plays with your marriage. When you are married both of you aren't two anymore, but one.
Marry the right one. When you choose, pray and fast. Ask, if she/he is the one or not. When you've find, get married. You don't have to wait to have your own house, car, etc. You fight for it together. :)

But in all of them, you have to know that The Scripture says something about LDRM.

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" - Matthew 6:33

all these things means also about love, dating, and marriage. In every step, search the Kingdom and Righteousness of God before every thing, so The Divine Lord will bless your love with his Divine Mercy and Divine Love.

Shine this world with love!
Ciao! :)

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

19 and what?

i've passed 18 years of my life. and now i'm nineteen. so what with nineteen. actually the numbers getting bigger. they say i'm older. but in my new days of nineteen, i look younger than in my 18. yeah, it's just because one simple thing. i shave all of my facial hair. mustache, shaved! hajj beard, shaved! i ain't looked as a horny tonky big fat uncle from the hoods yo! my fatty tummy tock got skinnier. i can use my old cargo pants, that i couldn't use for 2 years because it ain't fit that time.

19 and what?
19 and more works to do. 19 with no dad, means you're your family's man. 19 and more creative idea to be realized. 19 and more fights to beat. 19 and more close to The Almighty. 19 and more thankful. 19 and more dragons to slay. 19 and more demons to kill. 19 and more wayangs to buy. 19 and more dreams to be true.

19 and no girlfriend. hmm. catch a kind of that dude!

there won't be no hero, waving you at your window, it's the last of your teen. grow!

p.s. : tomorrow is mom's 49th birthday. we're both geminis. she's the best mom ever. :) be happy Ma, adik is struggling :*