Love, Relationship, Dating, Marriage.

Hey ho blog-world!

It's been some times since I wrote my last blogpost. Well I'm a bit busy with some kind of things. Yeah this year, once more, I'm trying to get to medschool (oh, Jah hear my prayer!). So I got to do the tests. Moreover, I also got a lot of works to do and also laboratory research and report to be done (feeling scientist mode : on).

Well it has been a great relieve after two weeks of war, ended with good meeting and party with my family. Yep. My" big dreadlocked big fat drummer brother" Mas Jantan Gerhana Surya got married last Saturday. Mas Jantan now officially married Kaka Grace. I'm happy for the both of you.

Okay, the party was rocking cool. But wait. Yes it is a wedding party, and I'm 19 now, which means it's not a long time to get married. Marriage. What?

From what I've seen, most people are getting married around the age of 24-30 years old. Yep. And I am 19 now. It means that around 5-10 years from now on, I will be getting married. And the situation is : I am not dating anyone right now. *hiks* *tear* Even that goes on, let this 19 years old boy blogs about love, relationship, dating, and marriage.

Love. What is love? L is for the way you look at me... *sing*

Wait. No, I got sore-throat, I ain't able to sing right now.

Love. I can't really describe what love is. The definition according to Oxford Dictionary - Online the word "love" described as:

1. a strong feeling of affection
2. A great interest and pleasure in something
3. [COUNT NOUN] A person or thing that one loves
4. (In tennis, squash, and some other sports) a score of zero; nil

But from what I know, we can't really describe love, but we can feel it. Sometimes, we often mix love with lust. And even we even mixed up love with our ego. But real love is an interpretation The Divine Love of God Almighty.

Dating and relationship. Asian and Western culture have a very different thing about this step. Western culture said that you date him or her when both of you thinks that the both of you are coo enough, and just date. But Asian [yeah me, I'm Asian, even I'm black] thinks that you have to propose a girl to be your girlfriend or date. Both of them got their own plus and minus.

I've ever date a girl, but yeah, things didn't work out, and bla bla bla [you know what to feel and fill about it]

Dating and relationship is a learning, knowing, orientating, and journey to get you ready to a marriage. Well so it's better to work things seriously in a relationship. Don't play it like an Atari or even PS3. Relationships sometimes failed. Yes, it is normal. It is orientating and learning. We learn something when we fall right? Don't do fool things in relationship(s). It is not eternal things.

Marriage. I leran from daddy and mommy, unks and aunts, grannies about this. Marriage is a ship. Both of you are the crew of the ship. Let Jah be the captain. Don't ever plays with your marriage. When you are married both of you aren't two anymore, but one.

Marry the right one. When you choose, pray and fast. Ask, if she/he is the one or not. When you've find, get married. You don't have to wait to have your own house, car, etc. You fight for it together. :)

But in all of them, you have to know that The Scripture says something about LDRM.

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" - Matthew 6:33

all these things means also about love, dating, and marriage. In every step, search the Kingdom and Righteousness of God before every thing, so The Divine Lord will bless your love with his Divine Mercy and Divine Love.

Shine this world with love!

Ciao! :)

19 and what?

i've passed 18 years of my life. and now i'm nineteen. so what with nineteen. actually the numbers getting bigger. they say i'm older. but in my new days of nineteen, i look younger than in my 18. yeah, it's just because one simple thing. i shave all of my facial hair. mustache, shaved! hajj beard, shaved! i ain't looked as a horny tonky big fat uncle from the hoods yo! my fatty tummy tock got skinnier. i can use my old cargo pants, that i couldn't use for 2 years because it ain't fit that time.

19 and what?

19 and more works to do. 19 with no dad, means you're your family's man. 19 and more creative idea to be realized. 19 and more fights to beat. 19 and more close to The Almighty. 19 and more thankful. 19 and more dragons to slay. 19 and more demons to kill. 19 and more wayangs to buy. 19 and more dreams to be true.

19 and no girlfriend. hmm. catch a kind of that dude!

there won't be no hero, waving you at your window, it's the last of your teen. grow!

p.s. : tomorrow is mom's 49th birthday. we're both geminis. she's the best mom ever. :) be happy Ma, adik is struggling :*

Sugeng Tindak, Bapak. See You Soon. Really Soon.

well hola internet world! como estas? muy bien!

today (3/10/13) i am posting n my granny's crib in Magelang. yep, two days ago, my father was called by Heavenly Father. yes, now he's there in heaven, smiling, looking at me and my mom..

well, sugeng tindak Bapak! goodbye, we'll meet again in eternal life.

here's some pic from the ceremonies yesterday

funny eh? nah, it is life.

well, hello internet world. hello blog.

in these times, it is a very rare free time that i can search, surf, write, or anything in the internet world. campus life is on, works needs to be done.

well it takes a lot of sufferings and sweat. but i believe i can pass it on. and next year meet me there somewhere.

but, i admit, i need to say a goodbye to my home base pastor. for The Lord has something bigger for him. :)

and i thought it was fun in uni year and everything is on. please pray for my success and focus.

:)

new place. AHAY!

all hail. i am now in a new place. a new community. a new reality. everything seems true. i believe that i was sent here to be the light.

oh hey, post-mine, i've passed you just now in your blog update. i'm glad you're back with him. well have a nice things both you guys. i am still searching for the right one. well different paths okay? hahahahaha

well i got a brand new big family here. thank you Purwokerto for being a nice city for me. thank you for being such a good relief from a really bad pain. thank you for giving me a new family. thank you for giving me new experiences. i am really glad i am sent here.

well like what Beatles say in "In My Life" single, yeah i cried after that song now, some has to be passed and left. but well we need a non comfort zone right?

yep it's me Henokh Ngili, midnight in an internet cafe. out of my comfort zone. watching her going back with him (again). doing lots of things to be true. and trying to exit from reality, but believes that these things done here.

adios te amo xxoo :')

new haircut :3 new start ;)

well it has been some moments until today i have to say "adios bitchachos" to my big afro hair.. well i just wanna welcome this new semi-mohawk that i think it will only last 3 months or 6 months till i got back my afro..

it has to be a new start for me in uni life! well welcome new start, new hopes, new realizations!

ein freak und ein weirdo? nein. ich bin ein loco.

am i freak and am i weirdo? well i thought i'm just one kind of loco. i ain't those smartass with no life, or even dumbass with no brain. i am just the loco.

well, ass you can see at the title, i am a loco. the loco things inside of me want to share something to all of you. the loco part of my life needs things to be truly loco. he himself like to present the world of loco. so this is it.

the loco thing is i am not thinking and worrying about my future anymore. i know for sure that i'll shine brightly. so what for am i worrying? and yeah, like i've said in the last post, i am moving (for at least a year) to Purwokerto. and this is what i got from 2 days driving, going, eating, and sleeping. Jogja-Purwokerto-Jogja.

after a lazy jazzy Sunday evening with Kobe, lots of good and cheap food at Dixie Easy Dining, awesome jazz vibe by The Everyday Band and Diwa Hutomo and Friends, i got back home with my sleepyhead because of too much Milo and yeah, fall a sleep. get up at Monday's dawn, fulfilled with new energy, packed some things up (nearly as what described here), shower, eat breakfast, and yap i'm on my way to Puwokerto with my mom, David, Ayub, and Tika.

well let just say the things are good there. i got my rented room. it's a new building, just consist of 4 rooms, with inside private bathroom, no A/C (actually we don't need it there), and already got things inside. i only have to pay Rp 4.000.000,00/year (400 US$ or 500SGD), or let's just say Rp 350.000,00/month (35 US$ or 50SGD). and free of water and electricity bills. we got a big tv for 4 people there. but no i-net access/wi-fi (so i got to buy modems or tell the landlord i'll put i-net there).

i'll let you know, Purwokerto has lot of good food. such as:
1. Gado-Gado Om Hoogy. (for description of Gado-Gado, click this) Located in Jalan Mesjid. it was in the middle of the "kampung", behind the Mesjid Agung Purwokerto (Big Mosque of Purwokerto) at Aloon-Aloon (city square) area. We also got Mendoan there. we didn't pay anything here, the stall was David's auntie's. hahaha. next time i'll pay lah..

2. Sroto Jalan Bank Haji Loso. Sroto is a kind of Soto that is special in Banyumas Region especially Purwokerto. they add peanuts to the Soto, and eat it with Ketupat (rice cake). located at Jalan Bank or Jalan RA Wiryaatmaja and opens day and night. it was cheap, only ten thousands rupiah/bowl (1 US$ or 1,5 SGD)

3. Es Duren. the perfect combination between pure durian, coconut milk, skimmed chocolate milk, and ice. it is so yummy. located in front of GOR Satria, it was one of good spot to hang with friends and eat the ice. costs 13k rupiahs (1,3 US$ or nearly 2 SGD).

4. Ayam Kremes Sae Niki. located at Jalan Mesjid. it was good taste of chicken, tempe, tofu, and lots of veggies. not expensive though. sorry, i forgot to take pictures.

there are also some food that is a "must visit and eat" but the time is not enough, so i ain't visit them. but yes later i'll go there. those are :
1. Bakso Tai Toh. chinese porkballs with intestines. everyone say that it's so damn delicious.
2. Bakso Pehking. javanese meatballs. they say it is good but later i'll try.
3. Bakmie Pangsit Cahaya Mas. chinese pork noodles with wanton and dumplings. 5 star taste!
4. Mie Keriting Cabe Rawit. curly noodles with chopped chilli padis.
5. Nasi Padang Indonesia. even Sederhana also opens there, but they said that NPI is tastier.

well that's for food. and those names are also on Jalansutra's list of Purwokerto's Good Food. but wait, PETE is the best damn thing that i will always find in every part of Banyumas Region, and i am fucking loving it!

one thing that makes me happy is, Purwokerto is not far from Pageralang (20 to 30 minutes with motorbike), which is the location of Sanggar Candra Birawa, Ki Kukuh Bayu Aji's (one of Banyumas style Dhalang) house. i'll visit him in my next trip there, and will often visit him when i live there.

and when we go back to Jogja, it was still a "mudik" season, near the Eid Mubarak day. have to pass some traffic jam and see some funny things all way home. and we take a new road to cut the traffic jam, and it was like all american highway. fyi: the new road we used has lots of beaches. need to test one by one.

 hey, sir. don't use government's car for mudik okay?

 now you work hard.

 at gas station. it's only a quarter of it.

 new road. all american highway.

 gondes on cam

 speeding, why not?

140 km/h, huh? that is still slow.

Well i thought it is enough for today's post. i'll write you more about loco things in my life. and well Happy Eid Mubarak, be as clear as vodka, be as white as cocaine. hahahaha. adios bitcahchos!

SALAM MESUM MANUSIA TAMPAN!